I am finding I need a new home or safe spaces. This feels so much like it as it resonates so strongly. This is one I have been introduced to and am grateful to Al Kennedy.
My experiences are that the answer is whatever is natural to you. Whatever you are attracted to. Which is, of course, unique.
I feel like I am going back to first principles using nature as a guide. At the moment, reflective walks in the park are providing me with the warm data I need. Here is one short reflection on beauty which I am rediscovering, starting with me.
https://papworth45.medium.com/the-nature-of-beauty-and-difficult-emotions-54668a191e21